To help you get started I’m going to list some common things men look for in a partner. See if they match any of the breakup excuses your ex gave you…

Looks
This is one subject that many avoid, but the fact is a lot of men do consider looks an important part of dating. Beauty is subjective and that’s why you need to play off the things you know about your ex boyfriend. An easy way to get a feel for their preference is to think about their favorite celebrities. How do they wear their hair? What kind of style do they have? What roles do they play in movies?

Fun Factor
Are you fun to be around? This is another tough question to ask yourself. Here’s the thing though, dating is about sharing and enjoying each others time. There should be lots of smiles, laughs and memorable moments. If you can’t remember the last time you and your ex laughed out loud together then this is a problem. Of course not everyone is comedian, but it shouldn’t be hard to make your partner smile.

Individualism
An often overlooked secret to successful relationships is a supportive partner. Giving your man the opportunity to explore his dreams is so important. Did you support him when he said he wanted to start a business? How about when he wanted to go out with the guys? We all need to express our individuality, and if that need goes unfulfilled then we will find another outlet.

These three things are only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to your ex boyfriend’s needs. Heck, these may not even represent his needs at all! But one thing is certain… somewhere along the line your ex wasn’t getting what he wanted. Identify and fix those issues if you want another shot with him.

Excerpt from:
3 Things Your Ex Boyfriend is Looking For

An essential aspect of appearing confident is looking the part. Your body language says a lot about the way you are feeling inside. Keeping your head down and slumping your shoulders makes you look like someone looking for sympathy. This is not the reaction you want from others, especially from your ex. You are trying to attract him to you by making him regret the he ever left. No one is going to regret leaving a person who isn’t strong enough to make it through the tough times.

What you should focus on (no matter how difficult it may be) is to appear confident. Wear your favorite outfits that show off your best features. Keep your head up and look in the eyes of everyone you come in contact with. Most importantly…smile. Positive body language is contagious, and the more you practice looking happy the better you will feel inside. Eventually these feelings will shine on the people you interact with (including your ex) and you will find yourself more comfortable in social situations.

It might be hard to believe, but it really doesn’t matter why your boyfriend left you. If you really want him back then it is as simple as being happy and having fun. When he sees how much fulfilling life can be with you he will start to question his decision to leave. This is when you turn up the charm and make him see that you are the only one he needs in his life.

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How Your Body Language Can Win Him Back