One easy way to identify your short-comings is to look at the things most women want from a man. Not all of them will apply to your specific situation and some of them are difficult to achieve, but keep these ideas in mind as you try to win your ex back:

(Note: this is a random collection of survey findings I gathered from around the internet for entertainment purposes only.)

- The majority of women want to date a college educated man.
- The “ideal man” is about 6 foot tall and weighs 175 pounds.
- Over 60% list physical fitness as an important quality in a dating partner.
- Only 28% of women DO NOT care how much their man earns.
- Women think men look most appealing in designer jeans with a white t-shirt.
- Women rate desire for home and children much higher in importance than men.
- Only 1% of women would date a man who hates pets.
- Traits that women hate in men: hiding emotions, dishonesty, selfishness, and abusiveness.
- Most common reasons women ended a relationship: lack of commitment, cheating, and selfishness.

Maybe you see some things on this list that you can work on to save your relationship (or your next one). While this was a very simplified look at the things women want from men, chances are your ex girlfriend has spent time thinking some of them. Use this to your advantage when you are trying to win back their attention.

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What Does Your Ex Girlfriend Want in a Man?

One easy way to identify your short-comings is to look at the things most women want from a man. Not all of them will apply to your specific situation and some of them are difficult to achieve, but keep these ideas in mind as you try to win your ex back:

(Note: this is a random collection of survey findings I gathered from around the internet for entertainment purposes only.)

- The majority of women want to date a college educated man.
- The “ideal man” is about 6 foot tall and weighs 175 pounds.
- Over 60% list physical fitness as an important quality in a dating partner.
- Only 28% of women DO NOT care how much their man earns.
- Women think men look most appealing in designer jeans with a white t-shirt.
- Women rate desire for home and children much higher in importance than men.
- Only 1% of women would date a man who hates pets.
- Traits that women hate in men: hiding emotions, dishonesty, selfishness, and abusiveness.
- Most common reasons women ended a relationship: lack of commitment, cheating, and selfishness.

Maybe you see some things on this list that you can work on to save your relationship (or your next one). While this was a very simplified look at the things women want from men, chances are your ex girlfriend has spent time thinking some of them. Use this to your advantage when you are trying to win back their attention.

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What Does Your Ex Girlfriend Want in a Man?

Some examples of roles you commonly see include the caretaker, the money manager, the talker, the listener, and even the cleaner. These are just the obvious examples, but every relationship is defined with some division of responsibilities and actions. Because romance is built upon what we “give and take” from our partner it is important to define your place in the relationship. But what about when things go wrong and your role no longer seems to fit?

Repetition is perhaps the biggest enemy to women are trying to get their ex boyfriend back. The belief that “what worked in the past will work in the future” is not always correct. Men and women change and adapt to their environment, and things your man may have found attractive before may not be as attractive now. This is one of the ways that romances fade. Trying to resurrect love by playing the same role is not likely to make a positive impact on your ex.

If you noticed that your ex boyfriend’s love for you faded slowly over time, it could be a simple case of boredom that led to your breakup. The cure for this is of course change, but even more specifically…changing your role. If you were the passive type then try being more outspoken. If you were perhaps a bit “bossy” then try playing the role of listener. Be honest with yourself when thinking about what role you played when you were with your ex. How can you change your role to satisfy your ex’s needs? Make the right move and you will be surprised at how quickly his attraction to you grows.

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Changing Roles to Get Your Ex BF Back