But what if the reason your ex girlfriend left was really no mystery at all? This happens more than people think…maybe she just got bored.

When was the last time you took your girl somewhere different?
How often were you genuinely excited about the date you had together?
Did you notice her telling friends and family about the fun you had?

It is easy to create excitement and curiosity when you put your mind to it. But when you start to get comfortable in a relationship you get lazy. Just remember that not all girls will wait around for you to make the most out of life.

Dating in some ways is not much different than shopping for electronics. The new gadgets and capabilities always seem to catch your eye. The television you bought just three years ago has been replaced on the sales floor with new models that have sharper images, more features, and likely a higher price tag. The price portrays the risk you must take to own the new model. If you can afford it then you might just cast your old one aside.

Complacency may have killed your relationship but it also holds the key to getting your ex back. It will be harder of course. You’ll need to show a commitment to embracing all that life has to offer. If you can do that then she just might come back to you.

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Maybe She Was Just Bored?

The answer to questions like these is “yes”…but your ex boyfriend is reflecting on your relationship in a different way. Instead of longing for the past, he is thinking about “what could have been”. You see, when your BF dumped you it was because his attraction to you had disappeared. What was fun and exciting back in the day has since become boring and predictable.

Now when he thinks about you or compares you to another girl it is in terms of your positives AND negatives. Yes, there are several things he still loves about you, but somewhere the cons outweighed the pros. If you can find away to re-balance his perception of you then the attraction will grow back.

Believe it or not, the fastest way to do this is not necessarily by fixing the negatives. In most scenarios you can succeed by drawing attention to your positives as long as you have something new to offer. There needs to be a new challenge for him to accept…a new reason to love you even more this time. Think about your life as a whole and change your expectations. Stop settling for average when you know there is so much more you want to do!

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Yes, Your Ex BF Thinks About You

1. Ask for Help
If she has any feelings left for you then she won’t leave you hanging when you need help. Maybe you need a ride somewhere, or a place to stay while your air conditioner gets fixed. Just make sure you cover your tracks because things will get ugly if she finds out you lied.

2. Offer Your Help
A slightly different approach to point #1. This time it is you who reaches out to lend a hand. What does your ex girlfriend need that you can provide cheaper or faster than anyone else? Whatever it is, don’t sell it too hard or she will get suspicious. Make an offer and let it sit. She may not call tomorrow, but a really good deal is always hard to pass up.

3. Be Seen
Staying in your ex’s social is circle is important. You want her and her friends to see you having fun. You have to play it cool though – no stalking. It is always best to arrive and leave before her. If you broke up as “friends” then make sure you get in some face time, but always be the one to end the conversation.

4. Share Your Accomplishments
This works well with texts and voicemails. Let her know you aced the big final or that you finally got that job promotion. Be friendly about it and don’t brag. The best line is “I really wanted to share this with you because you are the only one who understands how hard I worked for it”.

5. Give Her the Scoop
This is so easy with a little internet research. Track her favorite bands, teams, and television shows. As soon as some juicy news is released be the first to send a text or email link. Obviously you can only do this so many times before it loses its luster, so make sure you uncover an important nugget of info.

6. Make the Impossible Happen
Get front row tickets to her favorite concert, replace that lost set of earrings, get her the job interview she always wanted…and give it to her with no strings attached (what?!?). This strategy will only work if you make it seem like it happened naturally. Tell her you had a connection through an old friend and she can pay you back later. There is always the risk she will take it and run…but the payout is huge if you can play it cool.

Whether you use these ideas or come up with your own, the important thing is to get your foot in the door. It is not easy to spark up a conversation after being dumped, but with a little imagination you can get her to open up again.

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6 Ways to Get Your Ex Girlfriend’s Attention