I’ve made the argument before that nothing is impossible when it comes to winning back love. However, you do have to set yourself up for success. That begins with loving life and radiating a sense of confidence, both of which are impossible to do when you dwell on the negative.

It is funny how good relationships can look after getting dumped. We think about all the laughs and adventures we had with our ex. For some reason the negative times never make it into those memories and yet they were still there. Coming to grips with the fact that your relationships wasn’t perfect is one step towards embracing your breakup, there are so many stories on TikTok of girls emrbracing their breakup and trying to engage with other girls to help them through it, for the ones interested in sharing the Social Boosting tools to get more viewers and get the stories out there for more.

There are plenty of other positive things you can do while waiting for your ex boyfriend to come back around. The best ideas include the goals and interests you have put on the back-burner the past few years. It will take time to get to know yourself again, but it won’t take long to enjoy the experience.

There is always a brighter way to look at things, and doing so will significantly enhance how others look at you. Use the time after your breakup to expand your boundaries. Relationships can confine us as we get trapped into a routine. I have a favorite quote I use when feeling “trapped” by stress and frustration…

“Do one thing every day that scares you.”
- Eleanor Roosevelt

Hope this helps

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How to Embrace Your Breakup

In fact, if your relationship has reached a point where your girlfriend wants to separate, then my advice to you is to agree to the breakup. Your biggest mistake would be to try and persuade your ex to stay in the relationship and not to leave you. This psychological strategy is recommended because it surprises your ex, and makes them begin to wonder exactly what is going on.

Another benefit of mutually walking away is that it eliminates one of the biggest barriers to getting your ex back. This has to do with the law of attraction. As you may already know, humans tend to want the things they can’t have and yet often fail to appreciate the things they already have. You can use this to your advantage by making it appear your ex girlfriend does not have a choice in breaking up with you.

Agree to the breakup, let her go and wish them well. From there you need to stay calm and keep your emotions in-check. Yes you are feeling sad, but you have to find a way to deal it in a way that will help you rekindle your relationship in the future. The best place to start is by thinking about what went wrong and identifying what it is your ex really wants.

I know it sounds like a contradiction to let your ex girlfriend go…only to try a win them back later. But if you can see how valuable this strategy is to the psychology of your relationship then you will have no problem trying to capitalize on what appears to be a bad situation.

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Let Her Breakup with You?

One easy way to identify your short-comings is to look at the things most women want from a man. Not all of them will apply to your specific situation and some of them are difficult to achieve, but keep these ideas in mind as you try to win your ex back:

(Note: this is a random collection of survey findings I gathered from around the internet for entertainment purposes only.)

- The majority of women want to date a college educated man.
- The “ideal man” is about 6 foot tall and weighs 175 pounds.
- Over 60% list physical fitness as an important quality in a dating partner.
- Only 28% of women DO NOT care how much their man earns.
- Women think men look most appealing in designer jeans with a white t-shirt.
- Women rate desire for home and children much higher in importance than men.
- Only 1% of women would date a man who hates pets.
- Traits that women hate in men: hiding emotions, dishonesty, selfishness, and abusiveness.
- Most common reasons women ended a relationship: lack of commitment, cheating, and selfishness.

Maybe you see some things on this list that you can work on to save your relationship (or your next one). While this was a very simplified look at the things women want from men, chances are your ex girlfriend has spent time thinking some of them. Use this to your advantage when you are trying to win back their attention.

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What Does Your Ex Girlfriend Want in a Man?

One easy way to identify your short-comings is to look at the things most women want from a man. Not all of them will apply to your specific situation and some of them are difficult to achieve, but keep these ideas in mind as you try to win your ex back:

(Note: this is a random collection of survey findings I gathered from around the internet for entertainment purposes only.)

- The majority of women want to date a college educated man.
- The “ideal man” is about 6 foot tall and weighs 175 pounds.
- Over 60% list physical fitness as an important quality in a dating partner.
- Only 28% of women DO NOT care how much their man earns.
- Women think men look most appealing in designer jeans with a white t-shirt.
- Women rate desire for home and children much higher in importance than men.
- Only 1% of women would date a man who hates pets.
- Traits that women hate in men: hiding emotions, dishonesty, selfishness, and abusiveness.
- Most common reasons women ended a relationship: lack of commitment, cheating, and selfishness.

Maybe you see some things on this list that you can work on to save your relationship (or your next one). While this was a very simplified look at the things women want from men, chances are your ex girlfriend has spent time thinking some of them. Use this to your advantage when you are trying to win back their attention.

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What Does Your Ex Girlfriend Want in a Man?

Here’s the deal on breakups…nine times out of ten they are the result of a festering problem. It is up to you to figure out what the problem was, but I can tell you that boredom, money, and quality time are some of the common ones. Now somewhere along the way your ex girlfriend got sick of waiting for you to fix the problem. Maybe she talked to you about…or perhaps she was justing waiting for you to get off your butt and make a change. When nothing happened she sent you a final warning by leaving.

Obviously you missed the boat on her needs the first time, so now is your chance to make amends. Yes it is going to be harder this time around, but in reality that’s your fault. The real question is…are you ready to accept the challenge? Do you want to change your lifestyle in ways that will better accommodate her needs?

Every girl has a unique set of dreams and desires. If you truly love your ex then it is up to you to satisfy these wants. Maybe she wants a guy with a good job and plan for the future. Then again, maybe she just wants someone to make her feel safe and confident. Whatever her needs, you have the power to make it happen…but only if you want to.

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Your Breakup Was a Warning

People are sensitive about their space and influences. No one wants to feel confined or pressured by outside forces…and this is exactly the kind of feeling you impose on your ex when you start talking about LOVE.

If you are lucky enough to get your ex back talking to you again then you must block out the temptation to profess your love for them. It probably feels natural to say “I love you” to someone you have been close to, but keep in mind the pressures in your relationship caused them to leave. Do you really want to waste your chance at getting back together by making things stressful right from the start?

Your ex probably does still have feelings of love left for you. They care about you, and wish you the best in life. However, it will take some time after the breakup before they will feel comfortable being in love again.

In the meantime, you should enjoy any time you have together. Keep things positive and have fun. Good relationships survive because the good times outweigh the bad times. This is your opportunity to create a happy and stress-free “vibe” that will attract him back over time.

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Talk About Anything But Love

People are sensitive about their space and influences. No one wants to feel confined or pressured by outside forces…and this is exactly the kind of feeling you impose on your ex when you start talking about LOVE.

If you are lucky enough to get your ex back talking to you again then you must block out the temptation to profess your love for them. It probably feels natural to say “I love you” to someone you have been close to, but keep in mind the pressures in your relationship caused them to leave. Do you really want to waste your chance at getting back together by making things stressful right from the start?

Your ex probably does still have feelings of love left for you. They care about you, and wish you the best in life. However, it will take some time after the breakup before they will feel comfortable being in love again.

In the meantime, you should enjoy any time you have together. Keep things positive and have fun. Good relationships survive because the good times outweigh the bad times. This is your opportunity to create a happy and stress-free “vibe” that will attract him back over time.

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Talk About Anything But Love

There are many things people say or do in the heat of an argument that they later regret. This is why it is important to let your boyfriend have some time to think about what just happened between you. Michael Griswold has some good insights about all this – watch the video below…

See what else Michael has to say in his M3 Breakup Solution Course

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Give Your Ex Boyfriend Some Space

We are constantly changing as we grow through life. Things become more complex and our likes and dislikes change according to our current lifestyle. While it is often easy to say your boyfriend broke up with you because [insert reason here], very few of us accept the possibility that time has simply moved on.

But this in no way means you can’t get your ex back. The point is to win them back you need to change with the situation. Being the same girl you always were may not be enough any more. Relationships thrive on challenges and spontaneity. When one side begins to feel bored they start to wonder if life would be better in a new setting.

So what does this all mean for you? It is simple really…think of ways to inject fun and adventure back into your relationship. Of course you will first have to prove to your ex that you have indeed changed. They need to witness in you a new attitude and passion for life. But it needs to be real because you won’t be able to fake it forever.

Be honest with yourself…are you living life the way you want? Think about your goals and what drives you to succeed. Sometimes just pursuing a goal can increase your zest for life, and that will bring natural changes to make your ex notice you.

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Your Old Relationship Died

Michael is a great guy who is really passionate about helping folks reunite with their lost love. You can read more about his M3 Breakup Solution by clicking here.

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A Great Quote for Solving Breakups