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Maybe She Was Just Bored?

November 8, 2011 by  
Filed under Relationship Advice for Men

It is easy to over-analyze why we got dumped. Selfishly we think of ourselves in the highest regard, which is why we have trouble imagining why anyone would leave us.

But what if the reason your ex girlfriend left was really no mystery at all? This happens more than people think…maybe she just got bored.

When was the last time you took your girl somewhere different?
How often were you genuinely excited about the date you had together?
Did you notice her telling friends and family about the fun you had?

It is easy to create excitement and curiosity when you put your mind to it. But when you start to get comfortable in a relationship you get lazy. Just remember that not all girls will wait around for you to make the most out of life.

Dating in some ways is not much different than shopping for electronics. The new gadgets and capabilities always seem to catch your eye. The television you bought just three years ago has been replaced on the sales floor with new models that have sharper images, more features, and likely a higher price tag. The price portrays the risk you must take to own the new model. If you can afford it then you might just cast your old one aside.

Complacency may have killed your relationship but it also holds the key to getting your ex back. It will be harder of course. You’ll need to show a commitment to embracing all that life has to offer. If you can do that then she just might come back to you.

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Maybe She Was Just Bored?

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