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Broken Hearted Lover

April 20, 2010 by  
Filed under Repairing A Broken Relationship

In our modern world we are always looking for the latest shortcut, gadget, or drug that will circumvent tasks we do not want to do.  In other words, we are always looking for the easy way out.  This thought process can carry over to our romantic relationships.

Because we are so used to getting everything we want with the click of a button, it is easy to forget that human relationships are based on communication and emotions.  Establishing love and trust takes time, and if your ex has left you then you will have to make changes if you are going to win them back.

You can’t insist on being an ordinary person.  The average person, hardly recognizable in a crowd, is content to let problems solve themselves and settles with being just an option.  They always follow the crowd and rarely “rocks the boat” by voicing their opinion.  If you are this type of person, then your tendency for letting life determine your future will ultimately cost you any chance of getting back with your lost lover.

To truly change your situation you will have to gain more control over your life.  You need to make decisions that are best for you and allow your personality to impact the people around you.  Emphasize your uniqueness and never be ashamed of your interests and opinions.  By changing from ordinary to extraordinary you will capture the focus of those who you come into contact with…including your ex.

Being extraordinary means being able to be recognized in a crowd full of ordinary people.  It means that no matter how filled a room is, you will stand out and be distinguished that you are you and not like anybody else. It means being better than the rest in terms of everything they are good at. To become extraordinary you need much more than good looks and popularity…you need confidence and charisma.

Are you willing to change the way you live life?  Can you ignore the self-defeating thoughts that have made you just another ordinary person?  When you are ready to accept the challenge of becoming extraordinary you will have all the tools you need to get your ex back.  You may even find that the “new you” has better options then reuniting with someone who left you behind.

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